We accept the love we think we deserve. ― Stephen Chbosky Most of us are not likely going to end up with the person in our wildest dreams. In fact, most of us are not even going to choose the person who is right for us. That has everything to do with our definition of … Continue reading Why We Choose the Wrong People
When we don't know who to hate, we hate ourselves. ― Palahniuk. You are on the run. What makes it worse is that you did not pack light. You have a gigantic backpack tagging along. You have carried it for way too long to the point where it becomes a part of your body. Inside … Continue reading The World Hates You
Only a fool is not afraid. ―Madeleine L'Engle What is the point of living if you are barely breathing? What is the point of looking good if you are dying on the inside? You will one day look back and see a life well lived or regret all the things you have never tried. You … Continue reading Have You Really Lived?
Judge me and I will understand how you view yourself. ―Molody Lee Human language can be a tricky thing. Imagine calling a “tree” a “leg” or calling your “shoes” your “head”. Everything seems to be already named by someone and all you have to think about is its name. It would be very strange for … Continue reading Judgement is Just Lazy Thinking
The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light. ― Plato The saddest thing you've ever done in your life is to beg somebody to love you the way you love them. Sometimes you gotta give up on some people in order to keep you. Sometimes you have to save yourself … Continue reading The Light of Letting Go
There is a part of me in you that I love. ―Abraham Twerski Everyone says “love hurts”. Yet, all we ever do is looking for love. It feels so good but hurts so bad, doesn't it?. From seeing your world through someone’s eyes to bottling up yourself for that person’s expectations. Love has never been … Continue reading Fish Love: Why Relationships Fail
No war in anger was ever won. ―Selena Gomez When asked how he seems to always treat everyone right, a Ph.D. business professor shared a few insights. “Everyone sees the world in a different way. You weren’t born to click with everyone. It is quite hard to remember this, but everyone just wants to be nice … Continue reading The Fire Within You