Why We Want Our Friends to Fail

They want to see you do good but never better than them. That does sound so horrible, does it not? Sometimes, we listen to these thoughts ―these inner demons that dig for the ugly parts of us. The parts we are so ashamed of. The parts that should not be there. The parts which we … Continue reading Why We Want Our Friends to Fail

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Don’t Lose Who You Are

Nothing can dim the light which shines from within. ―Maya Angelou The world keeps screaming at people to improve. Our nature demands us to compare. Our pain demands to be felt. Don’t you ever get tired trying to fill that void in your chest? How can you ever be yourself when the world wants you … Continue reading Don’t Lose Who You Are

The World Hates You

When we don't know who to hate, we hate ourselves. ― Palahniuk. You are on the run. What makes it worse is that you did not pack light. You have a gigantic backpack tagging along. You have carried it for way too long to the point where it becomes a part of your body. Inside … Continue reading The World Hates You

Judgement is Just Lazy Thinking

Judge me and I will understand how you view yourself. ―Molody Lee Human language can be a tricky thing. Imagine calling a “tree” a “leg” or calling your “shoes” your “head”. Everything seems to be already named by someone and all you have to think about is its name. It would be very strange for … Continue reading Judgement is Just Lazy Thinking

Paradise of the Mind

Knowing yourself is the beginning of all wisdom. ― Aristotle There was a time when happiness was just an understatement. It was not the time of contemporary happiness, but a higher level of satisfaction and a deeper level of fulfillment. It is when you can tell who to be trusted, what to be done, how to … Continue reading Paradise of the Mind

Fish Love: Why Relationships Fail

There is a part of me in you that I love. ―Abraham Twerski Everyone says “love hurts”. Yet, all we ever do is looking for love. It feels so good but hurts so bad, doesn't it?. From seeing your world through someone’s eyes to bottling up yourself for that person’s expectations. Love has never been … Continue reading Fish Love: Why Relationships Fail

The Fire Within You

No war in anger was ever won. ―Selena Gomez When asked how he seems to always treat everyone right, a Ph.D. business professor shared a few insights. “Everyone sees the world in a different way. You weren’t born to click with everyone. It is quite hard to remember this, but everyone just wants to be nice … Continue reading The Fire Within You